After our son was born, my spouse and I struggled over sex for 12 years. We tried everything. Nothing changed until we stopped trying to fix the problem and started building a practice together.


Over 5 years ago, we started a weekly relationship ritual—The Sure Thingthat transformed our marriage. I believe it can transform your experience of pleasure too!


Love without pleasure is just partnership.

And if you didn’t sign up for just partnership, here’s what I’ve learned: Pleasure can return.
Not as something you chase. But as something you nurture.


In this 8-week course, we will…

Reverse the Drift: Learn why connection fades and how to turn back toward desire
Meet Resistance with Play: Transform frustration into curiosity and ease
Shed the Shame: Address the proverbial ‘elephant in the bedroom’ in a safe space
Release Performance Pressure: Shift focus from a goal to experiencing presence
Build Your Custom Ritual: Create a weekly pleasure practice focused on fulfillment



Don’t wait for a partner or a perfect set of circumstances to claim your pleasure. If you’re single—or your partner isn’t quite ready—start a Solo Sure!

When I take 100% responsibility for my own pleasure, I am so much more satisfied.

In this 8-week course, you will…

Take 100% Responsibility: Experiment with being the sole author of your pleasure
Deepen in Self-Love: Fall more in unconditional love with exactly who you are
Strengthen Inner Knowing: Build your ‘I know what I want & I know how to ask for it’ muscles
Anchor Your Solo Practice: Create a weekly Solo Sure to reliably fulfill your sensual desires


With a world on fire, who has time for pleasure?


That’s what we’re conditioned to think in a puritanical, patriarchal society. The truth is, prioritizing pleasure is a REVOLUTIONARY act.

Intimacy is medicine for the heart, soul and body.
When we commit to a pleasure practice, we stop running on empty and instead replenish our bodies with ecstatic energy that then infuses our lives.

When we commit to a pleasure practice, we…

Center Love: Signal to ourselves and others that self-care and self-love matter
Regulate Our Nervous Systems: Shift from a state of stress to one of ease
Cultivate Discernment: Deepen our inner knowing and untangle external conditioning
Embody Body Wisdom: Tap into the immense, intrinsic wisdom in the body
Fuel Our Life: Infuse the other areas of our life with JOY and PASSION


Imagine a culture where we recognize that our bodies are innately sensual and that sexuality is a glorious expression of our humanity and our interconnectedness.

What Sure Thing practitioners are saying…

“I walked away from shame, guilt, and sacrifice, and instead feel free and connected.”

“This practice has deeply enriched my life and the intimacy I feel with my partner.”

"It has been truly beautiful to reconnect to my body in this way.”

“Just what we need as ‘Freebirds’ (aka empty nesters) in need of
fresh inspiration for our weekly connection dates. I love it!”

❤︎ ❤︎ ❤︎ Course Details ❤︎ ❤︎ ❤︎

  • When: 8 consecutive Thursdays, June 11th through July 30th

  • Time: 12:00 PM - 1:15 PM Pacific Time

  • Where: Live on Zoom ~ all sessions recorded and shared via email same day

    Bonus: Includes a private 1-on-1 session with Elana

Your Investment: $399


(That’s less than $7/day to revive your relationship with pleasure)

Note: This course utilizes my book ‘The Sure Thing.’ If you don’t own a copy yet, you can grab one wherever you get your books.