In this 8-week course, you will…
❤︎ Make intimacy and connection a habit
❤︎ Nourish your nervous system with softness
❤︎ Cultivate open-heartedness and JOY
❤︎ Meet your Wild Sensual Self & Inner Lover
❤︎ Start a weekly pleasure practice that you design
Are you in a relationship?
After our son was born, for 12 years, my spouse and I struggled over sex. We tried everything. Nothing changed until we stopped trying to fix the problem and started building a practice together.
Over 5 years ago, we started a weekly relationship ritual—The Sure Thing—that transformed our marriage. I believe it can transform your relationship too!
Love without pleasure is just partnership.
And if you didn’t sign up for just partnership, here’s what I know: Pleasure can return.
Not as something you chase. But as something you nurture.
In this course, you and your partner will…
~ learn why couples grow apart and how to reverse the drift
~ meet emotional & physical resistance with play
~ shed the shame (the proverbial ‘elephant in the bedroom’)
~ release performance pressure and experience presence and deepening intimacy
~ turn frustration into curiosity and connection
~ create a weekly personalized pleasure practice, focused on mutual fulfillment
Are you single?
Don’t be like me and wait for a partner to start a Sure Thing. If your single or your partner isn’t ready, start a Solo Sure!
When I take 100% responsibility for my own pleasure, I am so much more satisfied.
In this course, you will…
~ experiment with being 100% responsible for your pleasure
~ fall more in love with you
~ build your “I know what I want” muscle
~ practice asking for what you want
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With a world on fire, who has time for pleasure?
That’s what we’re conditioned to think in the puritanical patriarchal society we live in.
The truth is, prioritizing pleasure is a REVOLUTIONARY act!
When we commit to a pleasure practice we…
~ signal to ourselves and others that self-care and self-love matter
~ can more effectively regulate our nervous system
~ cultivate discernment and inner knowing
~ tap into the immense wisdom in our body
~ learn to access a channel of pleasure at will
~ bring more intimacy into our relationships and more LOVE into the world
~ fuel the other areas of our life with JOY & PASSION!
Intimacy is medicine for the heart, soul and body.
Pleasure is good for our health! Studies show people with satisfying sex lives tend to have lower rates of chronic disease, better heart health, stronger immunity and improved mental well-being.
Imagine a culture where we recognize that our bodies are innately sensual and that sexuality is a glorious expression of our humanity and our interconnectedness.
What is The Sure Thing?
The Sure Thing is a weekly pleasure practice. While that ‘once in a blue moon’ experience can be great, regular practice creates a baseline that will transform your life.
Beyond the weekly commitment, it’s wide open.
Do it solo or with a partner. Ten minutes or all night. Orgasm optional; fulfillment required. The only essentials are a clear intention and a regular practice.
Each week we’ll gather not to fix ourselves, but to return to the sensuous pulse of our bodies.
You don’t need to be ready.
You just need to be willing.
What Sure Thing practitioners are saying…
“I walked away from shame, guilt, and sacrifice, and instead feel free and connected.”
“This practice has deeply enriched my life and the intimacy I feel with my partner.”
"It has been truly beautiful to reconnect to my body in this way.”
“Just what we need as ‘Freebirds’ (aka empty nesters) in need of
fresh inspiration for our weekly connection dates. I love it!”
Your guide & cheerleader
I’m Elana Auerbach. I’m a lover, mother, activator, mentor and priestess.
I created The Sure Thing and have been practicing it for over 5 years. It continues to be a miracle in my life and my relationship and I can’t wait to share it with you!
I began my exploration into the infinite realm of pleasure in 2002. In 2005, I created Sensuelle: A Woman’s Journey into Sensuality. I was ordained a priestess and then a certified focalizer with the Sanctuary of the 13 Moon Mystery School, where I taught for over a decade.
I live in Berkeley, CA with my loverman, teenage son and pup.
❤︎ ❤︎ ❤︎ Course Details ❤︎ ❤︎ ❤︎
8 weekly 75-minute Zoom calls, recordings included
Thursdays ~ Noon pm pacific ~ June 11th to July 30th
Cost $399
If your budget requires a discount, use promo code LOVE299 (cost $299) or LOVE199 (cost $199). I want this to be accessible to everyone. The more of us, the more love we’ll generate in our hearts, our families and our communities!
